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Recently, my husband had an abortion without telling. Infidelity is not. Currently, two sons and, in economic terms is impossible with age. Panicked alone had tested positive in laboratory medicine, worry soon went to the hospital, surgery date was carried out. However, the Stoic and bitter but I, my husband without knowing anything, doing things I ticked. There was morning sickness. Since belly to look ill and didn't notice anything and was a suitable contraceptive. Anyway I had a selfish thing. Light and neurotic. You would be angry if you talked to her husband?

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I also have two sons, abortion was third. And (3) you are together and economical aspects and age. However, I talked to my husband. So I accusing... regret to NIV by one person but not so-and, could not say why her husband would... it is very disappointing, not. Is not attitude of her husband probably did not know the facts from? However, as a person in the same position, I know better. Morning sickness also surgical pain, pain in women heavily more responsive. Is a mother with two children alone. Joy to children know nothing irreplaceable. "An appropriate birth control' out is the same. Without the condom he hates from outside the vagina had ejaculation. But I have problem to us if you think carefully, it was allowed. I think there is blame. Because it is reciprocal. However, blame, but responsibility lies. Know have a possibility of becoming pregnant from going to there should have room for reflection. And as a man husband should have required a rethink. I think my husband should speak honestly. From absolute to think about two things, I think. Yelled and I think that is not a problem. And talk about birth control properly. Various contraceptive condoms and pills, rings, etc. I'd warned having irresponsible thing to do, so I also you think married couples. Other respondents of the opinion could have been told. However, it's that we had. Seriously, go ago... and I think. And don't forget the lives and too arbitrary and selfish, but you know, I once dwelt in the stomach. It is a sore surely bear life. But I think strongly we live for the two children. To myself, I'm writing sentences now. I will know your husband I'm sure painful feelings. I think to now the very emotionally unstable. I'm better off 追i込manai yourself too much to want to cry... cry and silence the emotion. Nice one! 9 violation report

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