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Is a consultation about my husband and his ex-wife and children. Two years after marriage in their late 20s is a housewife. My husband is late 30's. It is now childcare during nine months of son's birth. Husband is remarried and has a daughter with his ex-wife's (now 6-year-old), on whether her daughter to her husband and is under discussion. Had to his ex-wife's daughter, did not work with her current husband, it is deposited from last summer. Cannot meet the daughter (home run by NPOs was commissioned by the Government) and the press to the Office of his ex-wife's husband found that repeated call, has been deposited. Request, return the child support paid to his ex-wife's remarriage after her husband remarried also entrusted the go visits their home to contact him in jail and the request is passed through both. Thoughts went to interview her husband environment also treatment very bad, at least say so, the husband you want him. Says it has accepted changes of custody (now his ex-wife says) says his ex-wife, and into procedures at any time. Husband nor says anything, and what is now not clobber home and (I) are saying and think of another way if you don't like. Are strewn and YES I see no good reason? I think the poor? And has said, say NO. In parenting for the first time I can't afford, even thoughts. You wouldn't have the confidence to say, grow in OK! Said the girl also help you, even if adults are mother and daughter and best friend, just positive words will be said. Try living together and said if it was not then think of the easy idea that it sounds. I still want to birth children, and adopting her daughter honest has a big fear. Also impossible to her husband and told OK! In the over. If you really don't like... and say thanks for also, aura "say right" that gives. Not want to cool woman to take her husband to agree with, is not clearly say. Or live together without feeling anxious. Once you pick it up, change lives in fear. I know my own disgusting or what. I think the words to tell her husband. Be happy his daughter is better? Amazed at the many additional answers. Thank you to everyone. All will be read carefully. Your answers we will supplement. And for take-back against my husband's parents. -Ex-wife says next month, → North Kanto to Kyushu relocation (transfer to keep up), by will adopt the future is not so. Answers to this question, women;

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Now I raise three children. The eldest daughter of 12 is a stepchild of the husband. Difficult "now is" to live together in the questioner's situation. Older daughter has sent small? 1. I clearly remember the mother thing. Maybe even if fact taken place believe will come to pick up sometime. Father see it only several times a year to bring, what about my daughter? Father not at work and baby care to busy moms. Has move the tension to a new location and by fears that "you had when it came to pick up MOM?". I now adopt the daughter will feel like. I think there are things to do ago that. First, eyes as her mother's question, try the home situation is? Or find another location says her husband's no better environment, if or consult with the Administration has been commissioned. I think the decreased distance between her daughter to meet many daughter environment is ready, and staying overnight. Is better from each other awkward bludgeon each other together, rather than to live together, I think? I think. Is a personal matter, but daughter, now's when my mother, but before that along for about a year, will for of run-up to. Daughter and mother during infancy, making me take easily. If you have remnants of their mothers, so didn't go smoothly? Do you think. Lap times you meet and her daughter "cute! "" I want to be together forever! "And think when we live together when it seemed sincere. Lived with an uneasy feeling remains, unfortunately I think bankruptcy is now. Please consider her daughter's feelings not hurt any more. It is I can't imagine there were opinions and ought to be was prepared to get married and divorced mother of mother forsake one's child. I think different from young women marriage would say "by his ex-wife might throw children" could not be predicted, and wishful thinking. To the mother who is he hard on mothers it is rude. For example "someday that cannot remarry her former husband might want to pick it up, you throw away the children from" or once, heard also throw away your new wife is prepared to adopt the '' I don't be silly! I think it is most. Are bad words, if ex-wife who died in or think differently you feel would pick it up. His ex-wife's "grow to be raised". Can understand your feelings that the husband you want him as a father. Focusing on Sue "anxiety" and "impossible", but not, is spoken calmly and is suddenly in the preparation period is required for questions and your daughter will work to end up together?. I'm sorry I gills. Make friends with questions and your daughter and family can be happy and Nice. Nice one! 409 violation report

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