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This is a 22-year-old. Decided to marry his brother. Will have to go to the wedding? Register on my brother is getting married. My father and my brother's mother remarried each other. I father stepchild, brother was a stepchild of the mother's brother. Became the mother who is so sweet to my brother, I brought in tumours. Father was always taking my work is too busy, there were few in the House. I killed my father at 17, I was kicked out at home with graduation from high school. But instead I decided admission to medical school but gave up, after graduating from the works in long-term care facilities. House was originally owned by my father, who became a mother and brother live. Since four years was out of touch. Received a letter the other day, my brother was married. So to get married in October 2009, to attend. You wear long-sleeved dress. Furisode are all by myself there abreast from time for family as well (kimono rental) 10 pm. In this way it was listed. Is nothing I consider writing but not indifferently Office (and orders or instructions) was a letter like that. Once you contact the home "to attend family from absolute. Natural to wear my sister's "and I was told. Long-sleeved dress that I wanted to wear at the ceremony, but without money, I gave up. I never worked in take-home pay 140000, so very out of. Wearing a long-sleeved dress that says do attend. And all are responsible. Now is the take-home pay 160000 and kite is life. If you wear a long-sleeved dress, is wear on different occasions. I don't believe a mother who was the wife of the father and the children don't believe my brother. Better still, I attended the wedding ceremony? Attended the long-sleeved dress better? Counseling for not consulting anyone. Thank you answers. Say you want your co-workers could supplement my grandmother (father's side). Apartment rental contract when my grandmother life pensions life was difficult but hopefully sponsors, Firefly to dine in birthday. I think that is being told to attend my mother grandmother. And considering the position of the grandmother. However, I can not to celebrate and your gratuity in addition to arrange long-sleeved dress very hard financially.

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Young was a hardship. Come stand on my own will I question who's very nice. Your story doesn't suit the favourite, so understand how deep you might make the cut stepmother, inherited his brother's and rim and felt that, with even better about cut, put out the conclusion so far. "I was kicked out at home with graduation from high school. > I decided admission to medical school but gave up only here side how well your questions by little over the years, opinions may change. However, I would not have expected them to act honestly. Touching feeling when we celebrate the existence, but not a very realistic, cannot be economically painful, and gratuity and the long-sleeved kimono rental fee incomes was paternal grandmother were pensioners, which rely on not to talk about that "for work, weekends and holidays must go to work" and would be unable to attend, but I'm sorry to tell. So and wheedling stepmother's conversation and in the conclusions of the "absent" and when in I think good turned out letters. And talk to お祖母様, not to the stepmother's treatment "was not able to wear at his coming of age ceremony, and current life was forced to be independent as soon as. Unable to attend as sister inherited his brother's wedding in mind right now, "that would convey your feelings honestly. And, as the other respondents ' advice about the inheritance of your father do to prepare. Such future developments, then your good go decided dealing of inherited her brother and stepmother, according to question their feelings change?. Will be irreparable if cut edges is easy and straightforward conclusion because in want is up, but taking action once. Please to depress it until there is a question of circumstances and I felt, maybe a little early. Please I wish you happiness. (^-^) Nice! 1 violation report

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