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Disagreement in the wedding bride & bridegroom problem, are contested by two people. From a third party, objective post, I thought I would appreciate opinions based on common sense. I continue for generations farmers with 33-year-old eldest daughter of the landowner. Opponents beg is the eldest son of normal households, two brothers. I tell the truth are a brother, from childhood home jumped not yesterday. Told is left to his brother, and from the old me to succeed. It is also (currently) only take the bridegroom, adoption is not. Currently, his brother is married and the House is following in the footsteps. Have come to (have kids) is a husband, so House is available here. (2 homes? ) Otherwise has a farmer father and marries come just let farmers enough so I won't say. Contents are at odds, but he said "no go marries the benefits. Is his only male heir, adopted son of my father's way in this with children. "" But never thought to get a husband is doing is the opposite of the common sense thing, because with betrothal money (money) to resolve. "That is something. Idea of nationality to be honest, I am another person entering had too little from childhood, so no 呑mi込memasenn. Bridegroom's overthrow of the sums 200 to hear average 3 million and the father was planning to make that much. He tells the bridegroom to come and don't get any sums he has 10 million yen. I want money, not good faith have come to see. He seems not to completely come to the bridegroom, recently made independent. To speak to the parents present above, honest name is preoccupied. Confer with last friends, also voices you'd better break up with, someone else coming to look for the best of? I think the next thing you know 33-year-old. In the high hurdles of the bridegroom, and brother and uncertainty is unsettling. But it is of no help in stress. And I'm sorry. Reading to the end thank you. Complementary relationship itself is five years. When you first go out was told "bridegroom's House but still nice if".

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> Sense and reverse common sense is what. Or will it pay half, 5 million yen betrothal money 10 million yen if they got married, if he insists. If you take the words of the person "must 翻sanakereba its opinion said the first son-in-law to come to, if it sincerely, isn't it?" > betrothal money 10 million yen entirely mercenary, right. What's good faith. I think the favorable family business guy, I neatly sums ready for that, if enough good faith support. Marriage Agency in "complete bridegroom" and also told the other parents from the beginning, I'm still "good" that quickly looked for a person who I think. 33-year-old. It is still now. Early man can say "no benefit" for a marriage goodbye you might think for you. It is worth to spend time on such a man? People to neglectful parents if my goodbye's. Violation report

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