[Long] dating for marriage and he was t...

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[Long] dating for marriage and he was told to "wait a little longer I want", are his two years (31 years old) this year. He is friend and company operated, has a daily busy work. When I think marriage is the story about six months ago, said "a firm settle just a little wait until". I "I, have stumbled around until should I wait? "And,"... just a little "Microcosmos and then either answer. Is told "If you don't have feelings to get married, so want to say" well it's not so much and not to leave says. At that time, I also acknowledge it, could then have been no talk of marriage. And lately, from the mutual acquaintance of each other (women), said "not yet develop from' do not marry him drinking at before, and asked. Continued work I can't feed, even so are going harder lives of the two men say that is unlikely. And still feel to me of his own problems and. At that time "from that after six months, but situation also feelings have not changed for?" a little saddened. I think he want hard work, now has sushi, cheered. Just be honest and anxiety. But nothing will change this, and also the. To the parents ' marriage when it? "And also is stifling such frustrating emotional often referred to recently a little spicy. Should just wait until decides he still silently watching, or is lost. Excuse me, but in the sentence confusing. For hard to talk to friends, we have written here. Help where you can tell us your opinion.

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Think you prepared when he was stable, and want to pick you up? It's just you're thinking important? Is debatable, but men are "perfect" marriage process to as tend to want. Waiting without expiration date now, but you know the feeling you want to prepare the situation who would be his wife, is a matter of life and even their parents grieve for is said to me, you too hard. Men may say "If love truly, so telling time, waiting for something," but no deadline promised to wait for is in the woman's reproductive period is really hard. I feel for you. Even as "engagement" If there is determination, already with his sorrows with keep you updated in, why don't you?? Married a year later "and is the engagement alone, would reassure parents. If, like you can say directly through common acquaintances, implicitly urging got even better? I think. But first, try tell him your fears? Rather than turn away "marriage" at that time, rather than in can't get married now that you are uncomfortable partner 1 life and cared whether or not that neat. I think when this subject ever, as long as you see the questions focusing on the "marriage", has been talking about is rather, please tell her "anxiety". Called "marriage" and "until you're ready..." that you think him a different perspective. Please do your best. Nice one! 1 violation report

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